Running into friendship problems concerning her pregnancy. Help?

One of my dearest friends is pregnant. It was an accident, however and her family has not taken well to the news as they despise the father. As I loathe babies, I had a difficult time adjusting to the news, but managed to cover up for it pretty well in front of her. My man does not share my feelings towards babies and offered us up to babysit and things like that. As she nears her due date(this Fall), I realize I need to solve these issues before she actually has the thing. I don't know how to approach this to either my guy or my friend. Any advice?